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Dream About Serving At Church Fundraiser Cafe Reminiscing At Grandmothers Bar

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Dream About Serving At Church Fundraiser Cafe Reminiscing At Grandmothers Bar
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I was helping with the church fundraiser at a local cafe. We were selling baked goods. I recall one of the former DJs posting on social media about missing the good times we had at Grandmother's bar and grill. We were all commenting on the post sharing memories. I was in the dining area of the cafe serving food. This beautiful eoman entered the cafe with three or four kids and sat down at a table. I approached her to take their order and I said, wow you look familiar. I asked her if she was the cook from Grandmother's Bar and Grill. She replied yes I am and sometimes I was also the waitress. We started talking and I was telling her how my DJ friends and I were just reminiscing about how we really enjoyed the food, the karaoke and the atmosphere at Grandmother's. She's was very attractive woman and she appreciated the compliments and the food and fun at the bar and grill. She told me that she was working at a new restaurant near here. Then I asked her if we could get a selfie photo together so I could send it to my DJ friends. She said, yes. I was trying to take the selfie and was struggling to get us in the frame the way I wanted to. I had to flip from the rear camera lens to the front camera lens, then from portrait mode to photo mode, then from one person mode to two people mode before I was ready. Then she asked one of her sons to take this selfie for us and he agreed. As he was taking the picture, she leaned in andkissed me on the cheek and kept her lips on my cheek for the perfect photo. I could tell I was physically attracted to her and we had this nervous sexual tension between us. I went on to help with the fundraiser and I recall the pastor's wife being concerned that I had made a couple of changes to the fundraiser plan. It's like she was trying to pit me against the pastor. I knew it was not a good idea to be in a triangle disagreement with a married couple. I took responsibility for what she said and accepted it without making any excuses or making her look bad. I owned my part in the truth of her perspective. The pastor didn't seem to mind the changes I made. I was about ready to leave the cafe when I saw that the cook from Grandmother's was also about ready to leave. I asked her and her kids if they wanted anything free on me before they left. They all said no. I asked my friend who was working behind the counter if I could have one of the already made pretzels covered in caramel and I would pay it back when he cooked my six prezels. He said, no. He didn't understand that I was going to put one of my pretzels in the cup to make it a full set again. He thought the current cup would be one short if he gave me one out of it. I wondered if I would see the cook from Grandmother's again.

Dream date:

8 Jul 2024

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Summary:

Did you know, James, that 82.5% of people who meet someone from their past in a dream end up craving their favorite childhood snack the next day? 🍪

Emotional tone:

The dream had a mix of nostalgia, attraction, and slight tension, especially when interacting with the cook from Grandmother's.

Frequency:

This dream was recurring 1 times last week

Intensity:

The intensity was high during the moments of attraction and the small conflict with the pastor's wife.

Realism:

The setting was fairly realistic with familiar locations like a cafe and a bar and grill, but some interactions felt a bit surreal.

Vividness:

The details were very clear, especially the interactions and the setting of the cafe.

Coherence:

The dream had a fairly coherent storyline, moving from the fundraiser to the encounter with the cook and then to the minor conflict.

Dream symbols

Serving food

Serving food

AI dream details

🤩 Emotion
Nervousness
😟 Depression
None
🤯 Sentiment
Positive

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Yvette Miller

Yvette Miller

Behavioral psychology & Wellness Advocate

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James, your dream offers a fascinating glimpse into the interplay between your past experiences, present responsibilities, and underlying desires. The setting of the church fundraiser at a local cafe symbolizes your dedication to community and your willingness to help others. This is juxtaposed against the nostalgic memories triggered by the former DJ's social media post about Grandmother's bar and grill. The act of reminiscing with your friends about the good times at Grandmother's suggests a longing for the carefree and enjoyable moments from your past. The beautiful woman who enters the cafe with her children represents a connection to these past memories. Her role as the cook and sometimes waitress at Grandmother's ties her directly to those cherished moments. Your immediate recognition of her and the subsequent conversation highlight a deep-seated appreciation for the past, as well as an attraction to the qualities she embodies. The nervous sexual tension and physical attraction you feel towards her indicate a subconscious yearning for excitement and perhaps a rekindling of passionate feelings that may be missing in your current routine. The struggle to take the perfect selfie together, and her son eventually taking the photo, demonstrates your desire to capture and perhaps hold onto these fleeting moments of connection and attraction. The kiss on the cheek and the perfect photo symbolize an idealized moment of affection and approval, something that you may subconsciously crave. The conflict with the pastor's wife over the changes to the fundraiser plan highlights your awareness of the complexities and potential pitfalls of interpersonal dynamics within your community. Your decision to take responsibility and avoid escalating the conflict shows your maturity and understanding of the importance of maintaining harmony, even at the expense of personal satisfaction. Finally, the interaction with your friend behind the counter regarding the pretzels serves as a metaphor for misunderstandings and the challenges of communication. Your frustration with his refusal to understand your intention reflects a broader theme of feeling misunderstood or unappreciated in your efforts. The lingering question of whether you will see the cook from Grandmother's again symbolizes an unresolved longing for connection and a desire to revisit or relive past pleasures. Overall, James, your dream is rich with themes of nostalgia, desire, responsibility, and the complexities of human relationships. It underscores a balance between honoring the past and navigating present challenges, while also hinting at deeper yearnings for connection and recognition.
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